tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37506198654856336402024-02-06T18:48:23.853-08:00Complete PandamoniumBethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.comBlogger67125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-80225942875157354152012-01-14T17:53:00.000-08:002012-01-14T17:54:01.644-08:00Formula moms chill, it's coolI chose breastfeeding. <b>I</b> chose breastfeeding. I felt it was the best for my family. It wasn't easy and it was something I had to fight for. Thankfully I had a lot of support in my family.<br />
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When I talk about my breastfeeding and why I chose to breastfeeding I'm not judging you. Sometimes I hate breastfeeding. Sometimes I hate that it dictates my schedule and how Ella can pick some pretty inconvenient times to decide that she's hungry. I've been late to appointments or had to nurse in the van. Ella gets distracted easily so I have to find the most private place I can find or she's watching what's going on instead of eating.<br />
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However, for me nursing is the best answer. I don't get more dishes on top of the mountain of dishes I already have to wash. I don't have to worry about trying to make sure a bottle is just the right temp in the middle of the night because thanks to the age gap with my children I don't get naps during the day.<br />
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However it was my choice. My decision for my children. It's worked out for me thankfully. I will still say that breast is best though. Breast is best if you can do it. I did formula with my son though. It wouldn't make any sense for me to judge others for a choice that I've already made. It just wasn't something I wanted to do again. I was lacking sleep so badly with my son that I ended up getting sick. I couldn't imagine doing it with two. On top of that formula is expensive. So, <b>I</b> made the best choice I could for <b>my</b> family.<br />
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Besides isn't there enough mommy judging going on already?Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-33465158977758277872011-12-03T08:19:00.001-08:002011-12-03T08:26:42.412-08:00EllaI used to joke that because my pregnancy and subsequent delivery of my son was so difficult that if he hadn't been my first he would have been my last.<br />
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Well, with the delivery of my last baby I have a new tune. If she had been my first, she would have been my last.<br />
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Don't get me wrong. I love her a lot and she's a great joy in my life.<br />
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However she is so much needier than her older siblings were. I joke that she's in such a hurry to walk because it'll make it easier to chase me into other rooms. I can't parent her like I did my older two. I am not a clingy, huggy person, and really like my personal space. Which according to Ella, my personal space is her personal space. It's very wearing and when I have two other children to attend to it's even more wearing.<br />
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However, I did not make her this way. Believe it or not babies really do have their own personalities. They're going to change over the years, but no two baby is the same. Which is why there are so many parenting techniques out there. Different babies have different needs.<br />
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So, the next person that "corrects" me when I say Ella needs me more is gonna get the brunt of my fury because it's getting old.<br />
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*ramblings brought to you by a mother that has spent most her morning listening to a baby scream because she was trying to get chores done and can't do them holding the baby*Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-60717621803747373722011-11-11T17:23:00.001-08:002011-11-11T17:29:25.239-08:00Happy Veterans Day<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I recently was able purchased some fitted diapers from <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/bebeMellons">Mary-Ellen Clark of BebeMellons</a>. So, this review is something I'm doing as a favor because it makes me sad that not that many people know about her diapers. They're really nice and really well made. She definitely puts a lot of effort into making a good product.<br />
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My girls have worn them with and with out covers. They worked very well both ways. I would save the coverless wearing for during the day of course, but it's definitely doable if you're worried about things like heat rashes.<br />
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I will have to take more pictures tonight, but they do fit both children very well. Both diapers were highly absorbent even though I started using them before I did the 5 hot washes that she recommends.<br />
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I think they're definitely worth the money you pay as you can use the doubler on an infant with an infant sized cover. They're just a good investment as far as I'm concerned.<br />
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I will say again that this is my opinion. I am not being paid to say this. I wish I could give away one of her diapers because they're just that awesome. I think everyone should have at least one of her fitted diapers, but it's not in the budget for me to be generous like that right now. So, please go buy one of her diapers. Trust me when I say you won't regret it.Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-38501280553698474402011-11-02T14:57:00.000-07:002011-11-02T14:57:52.896-07:00Not blogging latelyI've been innactive with my blog lately. I've been distracted by bigger issues.<br />
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Greg and I are in deeper money issues than I've wanted to lead on. We're having to come up with a lot of money fairly soon or we risk losing the house. It's not something I wanted to talk about because talking about it meant dealing with it. It's such a big thing. I'm looking for a job in hopes to keep this from happening. I'm also putting off my trip. I need the house more than I need to go to PA.<br />
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So, if I don't post on my blog that's why. I'm just really worried about other things.Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-86001268678230044242011-10-26T13:33:00.000-07:002011-10-26T13:34:00.184-07:00Wordless Wednesday - Yay mail!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/43030681/panda-bear-hoodie-classic-diy-handmade">Panda Hoodie</a> by <a href="http://www.etsy.com/people/aNGrYGiRLGear">aNGrYGiRL Gear</a> is not a kitchen item, but it's still awesome. I want it so much.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The only thing I didn't find that I was actually looking for was an apron because I'm a messy baker. I always get flour on my clothes, but they had a lot of cute Panda prints. I could always make an apron of my own I guess.</span>Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-82875262712055156952011-10-22T09:30:00.000-07:002011-10-22T09:30:01.695-07:00It's still racismIt's still racism if the race you're talking about can't hear you. It's still racism if you're only joking with your friends. If you wouldn't say it in front of a person of the race you're referring to then it's not okay to say. Saying that everyone does it doesn't make it less wrong. This is when you need to be the change you want to see in the world.<br />
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I'll take this even further with the cheesy sayings because I rather like this one. A river starts out as a small stream. A movement starts out small like a stream and grows as person by person they realize that the way we did it was wrong. You may be one person, but you're adding to the stream. Eventually a stream becomes a river, a river can become a bay, and a bay joins the ocean.<br />
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Racism isn't okay and you shouldn't stand for it. I don't care how common place it might be. It exists and it shouldn't, we should know better by now.Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-87387468612344888362011-10-21T06:20:00.000-07:002011-10-21T06:20:30.355-07:00Blast from the Past Friday<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br />Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-89664237052596817542011-10-13T04:45:00.001-07:002011-10-13T09:11:12.194-07:00The Return of Sanity<div>
Right now I'm blogging on the floor in my kitchen. You're probably wondering why. Well, my daughter is sleeping where my computer is and I'm a loud typer. I'd rather not wake her up just yet.<br />
Things are somewhat improving since I started my experiment. Though I now have other factors working against me now. I have a Parent/Teacher conference coming up, I've been trying to get Dedrick to be more responsible for his stuff, and suddenly Ella won't sleep unless she's in my arms/bed. This is on top of all the other things I need to deal with right now.<br />
However, I really enjoy this time to myself. At least now I get a chance to eat breakfast now.</div>Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-15239912429312822692011-10-12T08:10:00.000-07:002011-10-12T08:10:05.695-07:00Wordless Wednedsay - Presents<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">I would have a picture of Dedrick with his present, but he came home with bad news and I got distracted.</span>Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-22856804206955397682011-10-11T07:15:00.000-07:002011-10-11T07:15:45.463-07:00Family issues<div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
When I was a little girl I had a favorite Uncle. He was the best Uncle anyone could have and the best father from what I could tell. I still love that Uncle, but he's not the same person he used to be. The years have changed him and in many ways it has not changed him for the better.</div>
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He is more distant. It's almost impossible to get in touch with him. As a matter of fact I have no idea how I would contact him if I ever really needed to tell him anything. This makes me very sad because I remember how he was and I miss the person he was.</div>
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I actually saw him today. I'm grateful because that means he's still working. He's working on the road I live on. I thought I saw him last week, but I wasn't fully sure. I saw him while waiting for my son's bus this morning. I knew it was him because he had to get out to put a cone by the road. I knew him by the way he walked and his signature beard. There is no mistaking him.</div>
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However, I couldn't help wondering if he recognized me and especially if he recognized my son. I waved and he waved back, but it was a small polite wave. It's been years since I've actually seen him in person. Though the last news I had heard of him was that he had gotten in a motorcycle accident. Clearly, he's doing much better now....well, at least physically better. I just hope that when he gets past the things that are adding drama to his life that he'll feel it's okay to let his family back into his life. We miss him.</div>
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<b><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Do you have any relatives that have estranged themselves? How do you handle it? Did they eventually come back?</span></b>Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-11274383098277905792011-10-09T20:35:00.000-07:002011-10-09T20:35:30.812-07:00I'm a planner, but I'm at a loss<div style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">
Right now my obsession is making a list of things I'm going to need for my trip. I want to be able to get some of these things on clearance if I can. I want to be able to talk to people to get what I need for free if I can. I know my aunt would be willing to get toothpaste samples for me from her job. She's awesome like that. The less I spend on this trip the better I will feel about it. The more I can do for less, the more I'll feel that I've done what I can to get my break while sparing my family a lot of expense.</div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Honestly, I've not gone anywhere for more than a couple nights for the past 7 years. I have no idea what I should pack. This is just the basic idea of what I think I should pack. I didn't mention underwear because I have underwear that was bought for me recently. ;) I also have mostly decent socks. Please help me finish my to get list? I could really use the help.</span>Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-48174828158492308772011-10-08T11:03:00.001-07:002011-10-08T11:18:46.197-07:00Diaper laundry<div>
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This is something people write about a lot. If you do cloth diapers you fully understand how it can easily take over your life if you let it.</div>
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Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-54912715201778362862011-10-07T07:28:00.000-07:002011-10-07T07:28:21.403-07:00It's not a joke anymore<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">At what point does a joke stop being a joke? At what point does it become just being hateful or mean?</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">I should say now that I could probably use a thicker skin, but I am very curious. When does a joke stop being a joke? When does it stop being just fun teasing and turn hurtful? How is it okay for people to say really mean things and then go, "I was only joking?". Does that suddenly make what they said less offensive?</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">How about jokes on sensitive issues? When does it stop being a joke to tell someone to get a job, lose that weight, or any other subject the person you're talking to is already sensitive about?</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Where do you draw the line between a joke and outright meanness? How do you deal with jokes based on race/sex/sexual orientation? How do you deal with a person that is clearly just being hateful and hiding behind humor in an attempt to mask it?</span></span>Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-6298163134419302072011-10-06T07:42:00.000-07:002011-10-06T07:49:26.537-07:00When a celebrity dies<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Yesterday Steve Jobs died. I am sad. Actually, I'm very sad. While, I myself have never actually owned an Apple product, I cannot deny the impact he's had on my life. He pushed technology and the people that make our products to new heights. I don't doubt that without him we might not have the Google Phone or other products that were inspired by his products. The big thing is a lot of us don't remember a world without Steve. He has always been in our lives on one level or another.<br />
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Which, brings me to my point. When someone like Steve Jobs dies it reminds us of our own mortality. This person that seemed larger than life can die. It scares people. It reminds them that no matter how powerful or how rich they are that eventually they too are going to die. That's a very scary thought. The beyond is scary no matter how sure you are of heaven or the lack there of dying is scary. So, when someone so famous dies it's something that you can't avoid. It's all over the news. You can't ignore their death like you could when it involves someone else you don't know.<br />
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So, I guess in a way when someone so famous dies we're not just mourning that person. We're mourning the reminder of our own mortality. That's pretty much what I'm saying. Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-37182027126416224252011-10-05T12:57:00.001-07:002011-10-05T13:29:42.694-07:00Wordless Wednesday - Getting much needed sleep<div><br/><img src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKtykeIqHnBLr3s1HpbhNJbbW3ZYYKUZiV6i9EMuawotN_6Qmi7Gkf9RzHMQdZwHM87bHdfjphfvI6brAmHHZIJw-MvfTx0iZ0fpWLe6dtOevCMfRIEyGYuru3YEjrH9qvq707NJFfBkU/' /><br/><img src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiU7JCqp8Yfvinxhm-3J6Of44hunLFMzsx_E03gbWEaD5b698VI9P0-jQEAPuRryVkgQZdHuyipE_V-DyXVhCfHAZPrXwR-aqzbWHS4xA1wPpZdYTYv4u2VaMz3ELs3owz7aOga1Czfldo/' /></div>Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-34098804705986616882011-10-05T07:07:00.000-07:002011-10-05T07:07:47.139-07:00Sanity and my attempt to restore itWith Greg's schedule and my need for quiet time I am attempting something I would never do if it weren't for the fact I'm so desperate for alone time.<br />
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I started setting my alarm clock a half an hour earlier.<br />
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I desperately need the quiet time to myself. It's a little too early to say how well it's working though. Especially since today it took my alarm 18 minutes to wake me up. Though the fact my daughter is now crying in her crib is probably a sign that I need to give this more time. I'm hoping after a few weeks of this that I'll be used to waking up a little earlier. I'm hoping the effect will be a calmer happier mommy. My children deserve a calmer happier mommy.<br />
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<b>What do you do to maintain your sanity? Do you stay up a little later some nights? Do you get up a little extra early in the morning? Do you have a male to help you? Is it the ride to work that helps?</b>Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-33923867994940025892011-10-04T13:32:00.000-07:002011-10-04T13:46:48.419-07:00Things my daughter taught me.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Before I had Lily I didn't want a girl. I was afraid if I had a girl that she would be highly girly and I wouldn't know how to relate to her. I mean after all I was rough and tumble. Don't you need boys to be rough and tumble with?<br />
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My cousin Alesha helped me start to realize that was not the case.<br />
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However, it was the birth of my daughter that really cemented the case for me. She's a well rounded individual without limitations. She likes things because she likes them. She doesn't stick to "girl" things or "boy" things. I feel like I learn more from her than she does from me some days.<br />
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Cliche? Yes. Does that make it any less true? No. Here are some things I've learned from having a daughter. <br />
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<li>Having a daughter can be awesome. Actually having a daughter is awesome.</li>
<li>You can have just as much fun in a dress as you can in jeans.</li>
<li>Wanting to play the princess doesn't mean wanting to be rescued. Sometimes playing the princess just means wearing a dress while you rescue the prince.</li>
<li>It's okay to want to be pretty and being pretty doesn't make you weak.</li>
<li>Just because you have a girl doesn't mean you won't end up dodging pee.</li>
<li>People are going to tell you that you shouldn't let your daughter do a laundry list of things. Most of those things are kind of dumb if you really think about it.</li>
<li>Just because you have a daughter doesn't mean you can't wrestle with her.</li>
<li>Her being a girl doesn't mean she's going to be gentle. My SO has bruises from the fact Lily plays so rough.</li>
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Having a daughter has made me realize more about myself and has helped me come to peace with my own femaleness. I needed her just as much as she needs me. I'm just glad I was able to realize that. Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-49005684766752837462011-09-28T21:33:00.000-07:002011-09-28T21:33:54.960-07:0025 random facts about me<ol>
<li>I am an extreme introvert.</li>
<li>I like to read really old books. Some of them are considered children's books.</li>
<li>I am a huge geek and prefer tech over diamonds.</li>
<li>My favorite color is green.</li>
<li>I used to be a cheerleader, but I wasn't one for very long. I hated it.</li>
<li>I've always liked to write.</li>
<li>As a teenager I had a teacher make me promise to never stop writing. This is my attempt to keep that promise.</li>
<li>I originally wanted to have at least 4 children.</li>
<li>I hate carrying my purse around and wouldn't own one if it weren't for the fact I have to take so much stuff with me when I leave the house now.</li>
<li>When it comes down to it my all time favorite actor is Tom Hanks.</li>
<li>After I had my son I didn't want any daughters. After the birth of my first daughter I wanted the rest of my children to be daughters.</li>
<li>My goal is to try as many kinds of cloth diapers as I possibly can.</li>
<li>I want to tell you how I feel about the diapers I try. </li>
<li>I want to start designing and sewing clothing for children.</li>
<li>I want to concentrate on girl clothing because some of this stuff is just way too complicated/frilly.</li>
<li>My daughter is my inspiration when it comes to my ideas for children's clothing.</li>
<li>I am clumsy.</li>
<li>I have asthma.</li>
<li>I'm absolutely terrified of celebrities.</li>
<li>I have more patience for children than I do adults.</li>
<li>I love gravy way more than I probably should.</li>
<li>I feel the same way about butter.</li>
<li>The best way to serve ribs is covered in BBQ sauce. You might want to look away while I eat. It's not going to be pretty.</li>
<li>I love to cook.</li>
<li>I love football. My favorite team is the Baltimore Ravens.</li>
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Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-64900361549543168422011-09-27T20:31:00.000-07:002011-09-27T20:31:12.478-07:00Wordless Wednesday - Sisterly love<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br />Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-50334503302807574422011-09-26T21:58:00.000-07:002011-09-26T21:58:49.161-07:00Planning my escape.I am planning a break. I'm making time for myself next year and I'm going to make a list of things that need to get done between now and then. I'm taking a friend up on an offer to stay at her apartment for a week. I already spoke with Greg about it and he's not only okay with it. He thinks it's something I need to do for myself.<br />
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I'm super excited. I haven't been away from the children for that long in years...or ever. I'll be updating my progress toward the goal. I want to save up at least $800 because I want to have some spending money when I get there. I hope to be there during restaurant week. I promise to make updates as much as possible.<br />
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When we first started planning this I got so excited that I started shaking. I've not had a legitimate break in years. I've spent years being aggravated with Greg because at least 9 days out of the year he gets a break. He's trying to get deer for us to eat, but he loves to hunt. Not only that, but I know he spends time talking to his family before he comes home. Normally by the time he gets home he's so tired from all the walking he's done that all he wants to do is sleep. Which is probably why some women call themselves Rifle Season Widows. It's also why during Rifle Season one of the jewelry stores in this area has ads just to guilt men into buying jewelry for their wives to make up for it.<br />
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Either way here is the list of things that must be done.<br />
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Teach Greg which inserts go in which diaper<br />
Teach Greg diaper washing routine<br />
Help him figure out easy meals for him to cook that week<br />
Possibly freeze some casseroles for him<br />
Get a contact list<br />
Figure out ticket prices<br />
Plan for spending money budget<br />
Put my guilt to bed because I need this<br />
Get Greg a list of emergency contact numbers<br />
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<b>I honestly can't think of anything else because I've never gone very far without Greg or the kids. So, if you can think of anything else I should add to the list please let me know.</b>Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750619865485633640.post-42859950269261840962011-09-24T20:53:00.000-07:002011-09-24T20:53:51.634-07:00Asthma is no funI speak from personal experience when I say that asthma is no fun. It's something I wouldn't wish on anyone. I actually have multiple triggers and that makes it even more annoying.<br />
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This is not about me though, it's about my son. He has asthma and I kind of knew right away that he did because as active as he is if he ran or got really excited he would cough. He's a very active child and he was not at all lazy growing up. He would just get winded very easily. He also catches colds like I did as a child. They just won't diagnose a child under a certain age with asthma just because he's wheezing. They'll give you the Albuterol he needs, but they won't call it asthma.<br />
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He eventually had an actual asthma attack and I cried. I felt bad for being right.<br />
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As of late he's been having more asthma attacks because one of his major triggers is weather. He doesn't want to stand out in a state where people try to act tough in the winter. Dedrick can't be the tough guy or he suffers for it. The issue is explaining to a 7 year old who just wants to fit in with his friends. I feel for the kid I really do. I understand wanting to fit in, but I also don't want him to risk his health trying to do it. So, we're going to sit down and talk about it. Hopefully, I can get this through to him.<br />
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<b>Do you have any experience with chronic illness? How do you handle it if your child has it?</b>Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16397422714125510067noreply@blogger.com0